Hey y'all,
I thought I'd make a post today because it's Thanksgiving, a holiday that is difficult for a lot of people, regardless of whether or not we're neurodivergent.
But if you are also ND...
[North Dakota??? Okay, if you're using text to speech like me, obviously I don't mean North Dakota!!! Let's try that again. If you're neurodivergent...]
... in multiple ways it might be even harder to do holidays, because the usual advice around setting your boundaries on holidays for social interactions, food, and other self-care needs might look different for you. For example, I am AuDHD (pronounced 'awe D H D'), among other things. That means that I'm autistic and ADHD. So my overwhelm / burnout cycle doesn't look like either ADHD or autism alone.
For me, the strong drive to "be productive" the moment I've had a few minutes rest is not a useful impulse. It's…